Things You'll Need:
- Safe-deposit Boxes
- Attorney Referral Services
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Step 1
Meet with an attorney and learn about the laws in your state concerning property division. Get specific advice for how to handle your particular unique situation.
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Step 2
Gather all the records you can find that detail bank accounts, pensions, investments, expensive items, and the value of your home and vehicles and any other large important things you own. Make a list of other assets that exist and describe them. This will be proof for the court of what the marital assets are.
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Step 3
Secure items such as deeds, vehicle titles, jewelry and expensive collections in a safe deposit box.
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Step 4
Find out if your spouse has taken things and make a list of what is missing.
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Step 5
Have valuations performed on expensive items such as houses, antiques and jewelry. This will provide you with proof of the fair market value of the items.
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Step 6
Remove any powers of attorney you have given your spouse to assets that are in your name alone. Destroy any general powers of attorney you may have signed, giving your spouse the right to act on your behalf in legal and financial matters.
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Step 7
Cancel any joint credit cards. You are liable to the company for any amounts charged on the card whether or not you made the purchase.
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Step 8
Consider closing out all joint bank accounts and investments. Talk to an attorney about the laws in your state about this. If you believe your spouse may take those assets and spend or hide them, then you are probably safe in removing them with an intent to preserve them. It is always legal for you and your spouse to close such accounts together and divide them between yourselves.
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Step 9
Obtain a restraining order preventing your spouse from taking or spending marital assets. You will probably need an attorney to do so.










Comments
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 If you do not have privacy to go through bank statements and records, slowly bring some to your work place or a friend's each day and organize them in the evenings.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 Don't let anger and hurt feelings cause you to do something that could cost you later, like destroying records.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 You might feel that you are betraying your spouse when gathering needed financial info. Don't! You are protecting the rights of everyone and your planning could actually save time and effort during what could be a confusing time in the future.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 If you are unable to get a safe deposit box; use a trusted friend to store records for you, or buy a firebox with a lock; you still may want to store this away from the home you share with your spouse.