How to Tell if a Girl Likes You Without Asking Her

Hair playing is often considered to be a sign of interest.

In the world of dating, it's always useful to know when somebody is showing signs of attraction toward you. Whether she intends to show signals or not, it's possible to observe a girl's behavior to ascertain whether she's harboring feelings; this can give you the option to display your own signs of interest, and perhaps start a new relationship. Fortunately these signs can occasionally be straightforward to detect, although it takes time and experience to refine their observation.

Instructions

1. Understand her body language. If she routinely has her body facing you when you're with a group of people, this can be a sign that subconsciously she's more focused on interacting with you more than anyone else. Also, her eye movement can be an important indicator -- if she appears to sustain eye contact with you for a longer time than she does with others, this suggests an interest and enthusiasm in your interaction. Finally, it's often suggested that playing with hair is a reliable indicator of a girl's interest, as it suggests that she feels slightly more self-conscious than usual.

2. Notice if she's asking relevant questions. If she's engaged in your conversations, it's likely that she'll routinely remember things you've mentioned and ask relevant questions. This suggests that she's making the effort to listen attentively, which can be a sign of romantic interest.

3. Talk to her friends. Although she may be good at keeping her feelings a secret to outsiders, she may have told her friends plenty about who she's interested in. See if her friends act a little differently around you than with some people -- this is especially relevant if her friends are the first to bring her up in conversation, as this suggests that they know something.

4. Think about her reactions during conversation. In particular, observe how often she laughs at your jokes compared to other people. If she appears to make more of an effort to laugh at your jokes than other people, this is likely a sign of interest.

References

• Cheshire Therapy: Body Language of Sexual Attraction Between the Male and Female
• Word of Mouth Experiment: Top Ten Signs That Woman is Attracted to You