How to Talk to Your Kids About Sexual Abuse

Child sexual abuse is a serious problem today. Talk to your child about this issue and help him or her understand how to respond if it ever occurs.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Therapists

1. Reassure your child that he or she can talk to you about anything at all.

2. Tell your child to firmly say no if anyone ever tries to touch his or her body and to tell you about it right away.

3. Explain that even though children are taught to follow adults' rules, there are some times when an exception is necessary.

4. Ask lots of questions about your child's day at school, at camp or with the baby sitter.

5. Reassure your child that if something happened, he or she is not to blame and you won't be angry or upset.

6. Consider reading your child an age-appropriate book about child sexual abuse to help illustrate what you mean.

7. Role-play with your child about ways to respond if someone touches him or her, so your child will know what to do.

Tips & Warnings

• Repeat the conversation with your child every so often to help reinforce this important lesson.
• Follow your instincts. If you think something could be wrong, probe further to get to the truth.

[trenee169]

on 1/12/2009 When It comes to our kids, and if we really love them.....We better began falling to our knees...because if you tried everything else and you are absolutely exhausted..then began to pray for your child. If you don't believe in God...Then go ahead and allow your heart to broken a few million times first, because thats what it will take for you to try God. Just TRY HIM!

on 11/22/2005 Use an easy thing for you child to understand, such as telling them, "Your private parts are the parts that are covered by your bathing suit. Nobody should be touching you in these areas." Explain that sometimes the doctor has to look at your private parts to make sure you are healthy, but mommy (or daddy) will be there with you. Keeping very open communication is the best defense!

on 11/22/2005 Tell your child that it is wrong for parents, siblings, relatives or close family friends to touch them inappropriately.