How to Get Your Toddler to Stop Begging
Your toddler is growing both emotionally and physically. He may test your patience as he strives for independence. As he learns more words, he may even start to beg. He may believe that begging will get him what he wants if you give in. You need to focus on ways to reduce his begging and encourage him to behave properly.
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Be prepared for situations that may bring on begging. For instance, your child may beg for candy at the grocery store. Explain to your child before you go in that she cannot have everything she wants. Tell her that if she behaves, you will get her one thing. You should also bring things to occupy your toddler with while in the store. Bring her favorite stuffed animal or toy to keep her busy.
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Show consistency and calmness. If you give in one time, your toddler will think that he can use begging to get his way. When your toddler begs, tell him in a firm and calm manner to stop.
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Offer your toddler options. You can work with your toddler without giving in. If your toddler starts begging for several kinds of candy in the grocery store, give her a choice. Tell her that she can pick out one thing. This allows your toddler to feel somewhat in control and may stop her begging.
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Distract your toddler. If he starts begging, focus his attention elsewhere. If you're at the grocery store, ask for his help. Ask him which can of peas to buy, for instance. If you're at home, you can ask him to help you with chores, such as putting clothes in the washer or giving the dog food. This may help him feel like a big boy and stop his begging.
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References
- Baby Zone: Is Your Toddler in Control? Taking Charge of Your Tot
- The University of Alabama: Parenting Assistance Line -- Talking With Your Child
- Child Development Institute: Handling Tantrums, Fussing and Whining -- Parent Guide
- Baby Center: The Discipline Tool Kit -- Successful Strategies for Every Age
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