How to Ask People to the Prom

Be confident when asking someone to go to the prom.

Going to the prom is one of those monumental school events right in line with signing up for driver's education class and graduating. However, you may feel there's less pressure parallel parking than asking that someone special out to the prom. You can do it. With a little confidence and a lot of courage, you'll have mastered "the ask" before it's time to get fitted for your cap and gown.

Instructions

1. Get your friends in on the action. Ask your friends to ask her friends if she's already got a date. Do a little prodding ahead of time to avoid feeling embarrassed or rejected on the spot.

2. Spend a little one-on-one time with him. Go to lunch together, walk with him after school and volunteer to work on a project together. Give yourself some time to feel him out to see if he's remotely interested in you.

3. Go on a group date. Let her see what a cool personality you have by asking her to pal around with you and your friends. Show her that spending time with you is entertaining so when you do ask her she'll have that to reference.

4. Ask! Wait until you two are alone so there's no pressure for either of you. Take a few deep breaths and make a smooth transition from your conversation to ask if she's already committed to a date for the prom. Let her know you've had fun with her and would like to extend your time getting to know each other by going to the prom together.

5. Smile and wait for the response. Don't let your nerves get the best of you where you ramble on about nothing. Be confident and direct in your request and let it all settle in for both of you. Await the answer and make plans accordingly.

References

• Elle Girl; "Should You Ask a Guy to Prom"; Erin Depew; February 2011