How to Communicate With Your Crush
If you have a crush on someone, you might find it difficult to work up the nerve to talk to him. It might be hard to figure out what to say if you get very nervous when in his presence. Plan out a few different topics to discuss with your crush ahead of time, so that you will be prepared to talk with him when the opportunity arises. Once you make that first move, you will establish a connection with your crush that you can continue to build upon in the future.
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Find a reason to strike up an initial conversation with your crush. If you have a class together, try to sit by him or if he's wearing a sports team jersey, talk to him about the team.
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Make eye contact with your crush. This will show him that you're listening to what he is saying and are interested in his thoughts.
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Ask your crush questions to let him know that you are interested in him as a person. This will help you to get to know more about him. It will also make your crush feel special since you are demonstrating that you want to know so much about him.
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Maintain a level of confidence when you talk to your crush. This will make you more attractive to him, as a confident person is always more desirable than someone lacking self-esteem.
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Stay true to yourself when you talk to your crush. The more down-to-earth you behave, the more comfortable you will make him feel. Be yourself and you will impress him with your personality.
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Compliment your crush to boost his ego. Don't go over the top with it, but pay him a few compliments to make him feel special. If you make him feel good, he will likely want to spend more time with you.
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