How to Compliment a Plus-Size Girl

Complimenting a plus-size girl will make her feel good about herself.

Knowing how and when to compliment a friend or an acquaintance is an art that helps strengthen and maintain social bonds. When complimenting someone, it is important to mean what you're saying. If what is said does not come from the heart, it ends up sounding hollow and insincere. A compliment is well received and appreciated when the giver is honest. While complimenting people who may have image issues, it is important to be sensitive and draw attention to what is appealing.

Instructions

Smile With Sincerity

1. Start with a smile. The compliment can be about her dress or her hair or her smile. Be direct and friendly.

2. Use the right tone of voice and inflection to sound sincere and truthful. If the girl is shy or appears awkward, say something to make her feel at ease. The best way to bring her out of her shell is through a heartfelt compliment.

3. Give a context to your compliment. For instance, if it is about her smile, start by saying how you have always seen how lovely her smile is. If the girl is not known to you, then this can be a good way of breaking the ice also. Start by telling her how you have observed her smile and wanted to tell her how lovely it is.

4. Draw attention away from her weight if you feel that is what is making her self-conscious. Personality, charm, friendliness, appearance can be compliment in a graceful way and make the recipient feel worthy and happy.

Tips & Warnings

• Be open and effusive -- she will appreciate it more when it is repeated.

References

• Miss Conduct"s Blog: Boston Globe Magazine
• The Perfect Compliment: Esquire Magazine

Resources

• Organizing for Life: Complimenting Your Partner