How to Quit Being Amish
The Amish way of life combines an unwavering commitment to Christian faith, along with a strong involvement with the Amish community. Although most Amish people remain in the faith, following its doctrines and traditions, some Amish people do decide to quit being Amish. The reasons vary according to individual circumstances, but usually leaving an Amish community involves complete separation from family and friends.
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Analyze the decision to leave the Amish community. Once baptized as an adult into the Amish community, the Amish view this as a lifelong and monumental commitment to their way of life. If you have not been baptized yet, leaving may be easier; however, the Amish expect teens and young people to undergo baptism and become a part of their church and community. Leaving the community will likely mean severing ties with Amish family and friends completely.
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Contact family and friends that you have outside the Amish community for help. You need a person or a family who will give you support and assistance during the time you are leaving the community. You will need food and a place to live for a period of time while you look for work and begin earning money.
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Explain your decision to your Amish family as you make preparations to leave. Your family will likely feel concerned and upset at the prospect of you leaving the Amish community. Stay firm but resolute in your decision as your family probably attempts to convince you to stay.
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Pack your belongings. Do not take anything that is not yours and pack lightly. You probably only need one bag with your clothing and a few personal effects. You should be able to carry everything you take with you yourself easily. Packing fewer items makes it easier to manage your belongings after you leave.
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Say your goodbyes to friends and family in the Amish community. Realize that unless you return to the community, your family and friends will probably shun you after you leave. The Amish practice shunning to avoid community members who violate church doctrines. The purposes of shunning include protecting the community from impure conduct and encouraging a transgressor to repent.
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Settle into your new life. Work hard to find a job or get an education. If you are living with people who are helping to give you a fresh start, communicate with them directly so you know how long you can stay and what they expect from you as you live with them.
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