How to Get Along With a Jerk Boss

Learn how to handle a difficult boss.

Getting along with your boss can make your job easier to go to each day. But some bosses are difficult to deal with and can make the time you spend at work miserable. While it may seem difficult to get along with your boss, it is worth making the effort. Once you learn how to handle a jerk boss, the time you spend at work can be more enjoyable.

Instructions

1. Avoid getting angry when your boss says something negative. If you become flustered, you may say things you don't mean and make the situation worse. Instead, take a deep breathe and think before you speak. If she does not approve of how you completed your last assignment, ask her how you can make it better. She will recognize that you handle criticism well and are willing to improve your work.

2. Stand up for yourself. If you believe your boss said something to you that was more offensive than constructive, express your feelings. Tell her that you found her comments offensive and that you would benefit more if she kept her criticism more constructive. Speak in a calm, firm voice; avoid screaming or yelling. If you stand up to your boss, she may respect you more because you do not tolerate being talked down to.

3. Do not take what your boss says to you personally. If he often picks apart your work, do not assume he is personally attacking you. He may be a perfectionist and wants things done a certain way. Instead of getting upset, take his advice and see if you can improve your work.

4. Say something nice to your boss. Only give her sincere compliments because you don't want to appear phony. Tell her she looks nice or that you appreciate the advice she gave you the other day. If she notices that you are making an effort to get along with her, she may ease up on you.

References

• Conflict911.com: How To Deal With A Difficult Boss; Tristan Loo