How to Tell If You Are in Love As a Teen

Figure out how to know if you're in love.

Falling in love as a teen can be like navigating an emotional minefield. At times you don't know if the feelings that you have for someone are just an extensive crush or if you really do feel like this is "the one." Many of the same signs adults experience ring true for teens who are falling in love. Consider if your relationship is just "puppy love" or if you really have been developing a solid relationship that could be long-lasting.

Instructions

1. Notice how you feel when you're around him. If your heart flutters, you smile wider than the sun, and your entire body just tingles, your feelings may be more serious than you think. Ponder how long you've been together and how long you've been feeling this way. Don't get the feeling of lust confused with love. Lust is a lot more physical than love is. If, when you see him, you don't only think about kissing him or touching him, you're probably in love. Another indication that you're in love is when it's been a year or more and you still can't imagine being without him.

2. Talk about if the feelings are mutual. If she's telling you how happy she is to be with you in the same ways that you are about her, you're on your way toward a successful shot at a serious relationship. Notice that she's just as worried about pleasing you as you are her. Some examples include when you're going to get her lunch or offer to help her with her homework and she reciprocates by offering to baby-sit your little sister when you have sports practice.

3. Spend time with each other's families and friends. Notice how there's no question that he wants to not only meet your family but help your dad with yard work and go on the family vacation; also, his family's cool with your family. Your nurturing environment is fostering a healthy relationship that is built on sharing some of the same values, as well as approval from your folks.

4. Gauge your heart. You notice you've never felt better being around her. You're not sure why you are beaming, but you are. You are completely yourself around her, and you want nothing more than to spend as much time with her as possible. The cool thing about your feelings is you just want the best for her, no matter what it takes.

References

• Teens Health: It Feels Like Love - But Is It?