How to Use Good Comebacks

Have some fun by developing quick combacks.

You want to be able to think up quick and witty responses when someone is challenging your point of view. You also want to "fire back" when someone tries to get the upper hand in a conversation. Some people have natural ability to make that sarcastic or funny response, while others struggle with even keeping the conversation going. Use these steps to build up your own repertoire of comeback classics.

Instructions

1. Find resources that provide you with great sample comebacks, so you can build a personal list of favorites.

2. Talk to a few people you know well who already use great comebacks. Watch them in action and ask them how they developed their wit.

3. Practice your delivery. Whether you use a mirror or a friend, try out your comebacks. Consider your tone of voice, the way you use expressions, and your ability to pause for effect.

4. Seek out communication skill training and resources. The more you understand the give and take of communication, the better equipped you will be to use zinger comebacks.

5. Wait for your moment to pounce. If a person is insulting you and trying to make you look bad, wait for that perfect moment to use one of your comebacks. Patience is key.

6. Keep your calm when using comebacks. A deadpan or neutral emotional look and tone of voice will increase your effectiveness and will demonstrate confidence.

Tips & Warnings

• Remember to build up your resources of great comebacks.

• Practice is absolutely key -- first in a mirror then with other people.

• Watch your sarcasm. You can be flippant and at times a sarcastic attitude can be effective, but it can also get you into lots of trouble.

• Use comebacks to have fun in conversation with friends and family. Nasty comebacks in unfamiliar settings with people you do not know can be dangerous.

Resources

• Jokes 'N Jokes comebacks, sarcasm and insults for all occasions
• Humosphere comebacks
• MindTools Communication Skills