How to Ask a Girl Out in a Group
It's hard enough to get the courage to ask a girl out when she's alone, much less if she is always with her group of friends. Likewise, if you both are part of the same circle of friends, it may be nearly impossible to ask her out without getting a lot of teasing and flack from the group. Don't let this deter you if you really like this girl. With a few tips and a lot of confidence, asking the girl of your dreams out will be easier than you think. Does this Spark an idea?
Instructions
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Try to figure out if she likes you. If you perceive that she may be interested in you as well, it will give you more confidence to ask her out. If she is with her group of friends or the two of you are hanging out with a group, let her catch you staring for longer than you should. Take it as a good sign if she holds your gaze or smiles back. Also gear your conversations towards her and see if responds positively to you. Accidentally brush her arm or shoulders, or sit a little closer than usual. If she doesn't move away, smiles and compliments you a lot, it's a good indication she may be interested in you as more than a friend.
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Find out her interests. If you know she likes a particular band, loves horror movies or has a hobby she's passionate about, you can use the information to your advantage. Buy tickets to see the band perform or to the latest horror flick. Mentioning that you have tickets to a show that you know she would like gives you an excuse to ask her out.
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Pull her out of the group. Wait until the group is distracted intensely talking about something, then gently touch her arm and ask if you could talk to her for a second. Keep it quick and casual, and don't make it seem like a big deal so that you don't get the rest of the group's attention. Mention that you have these tickets, you thought specifically of her and wanted to know if she'd like to come with you. Keep eye contact and smile as you are asking.
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Keep it cool if she says yes. As happy as you may be, don't keep smiling goofily at her or act bashful. Everyone will know what's up and you could just end up embarrassing the girl. If you can't act normal, tell her and the group you'll see them later and leave to celebrate in private.
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Tips & Warnings
If you're too nervous to ask her out one-on-one just yet, invite her and her group of friends to a party or to get something to eat at the local pizza spot. Offer to pay for the pizza once you get there. At the very least, you'll get to hang out with her and get to know her better, and her friends will be impressed by your gentleman-like offer.
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