How to Meet Wealthy Older Ladies
Maybe your Ms. Right didn't graduate from high school the same time that you did. Perhaps you discover that you are more compatible with older women. Older women can enjoy the company of a younger man in much same way that older men enjoy much younger girls. However, if you want to meet older women who have also accumulated substantial wealth, then you will have to learn to love some new hobbies.
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Love yourself first. In the book, "Secrets of a Fix-Up Fanatic" Susan Shapiro writes "the happier, better, and stronger you are by yourself, the happier, better and stronger the connections you will create." She advises that you move to a new city if that's the only way that you can build your self-esteem. Journal or blog about the things about yourself that you want to change. Then, follow through. Seek therapy for outside analysis. Build up your self confidence by getting to know yourself and creating the person you most want to be.
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Change your appearance. You don't have to adopt someone else's style, adopt a style that works best for you. Call up a girl with fashion sense and ask her to go shopping with you.
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Groom yourself regularly. Get into the habit of taking care of yourself through eating healthier foods, quitting smoking, exercising and grooming. Wear colognes. The store shelves are full of men's products that are excellent for all your grooming needs.
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Interview your mother and aunts about what older women like. Ask them about the things that younger guys do that turn them off. Ask them what women discover about men, relationships and themselves after they are past 40 or 50 years old.
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Go to places that wealthy women go. Attend local social events where there will be older wealthy women, such as museum openings, art gallery shows or black tie dinners for politicians.
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Attend wine tastings. Flip through wine magazines to find out if there are any happening in your local area or in the arts and entertainment section of your local newspaper. While you're there, mingle and introduce yourself. Ask one of your new friends to introduce you to the lady that catches your eye. Their semi-endorsement will get your foot in the door.
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Join a country club or a golf course. Contact a friend who may know a friend who may know another friend that can get you in the door and help get you membership.
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Attend business networking events. Don't assume all wealthy women are rich because of marriage. Some women build their wealth on their own through starting and running their own business ventures.
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Wait until you catch her eye before you approach her. Smile. If she smiles back, nod in her direction to see if she gives you permission to come over. She may smile back as to say yes.
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Introduce yourself. Forget using any pick up lines because she's probably heard them all a few times. Say your name and possible what you do for a living. Ask her if you can sit with her and talk for a moment.
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Keep the conversation casual. Don't try to impress her. Be yourself. Older women aren't like twenty something girls who expect the man to make every move. If she wants you to have her number to contact her in the future, she will give it to you before she ends the conversation. If she doesn't, don't be shy to ask if you can call her sometime. Don't push it if she turns you down.
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