How to Honor a Deceased Loved One

Honor your loved one to keep her memory alive.

The desire to honor a deceased loved one is a natural response for someone who is grieving. No matter what your budget, you can pay homage to a loved one's memory with benevolent acts. Even something as simple as remembering the deceased loved one on her birthday is meaningful. By taking time to honor your loved one, you will keep her memory alive and help others cope with their loss.

Instructions

1. Visit a local church and ask to light a candle in memory of your loved one. Some churches may allow you to leave a small picture next to the candle.

2. Write a memorial column for your local newspaper. Include your loved one's picture.

3. Give a donation to a cause your loved one supported. Make the donation in the deceased person's name.

4. Buy a memorial plaque listing your loved one's accomplishments or your feelings toward him. Get permission to post the plaque somewhere prominent, such as on a church pew, on a ball park seat or at a museum.

5. Make a photograph memorial on a tabletop or mantelpiece in your home

Tips & Warnings

• Involve other family members in planning memorials.

References

• Georgia Tech: Gifts in Honor or Memory
• Regent University; Co-traveling With Others Along Their Grief Journey; Reginald Watson, M.Div; M.S., C.A.S.; 2011