How Do I Get a Girl to Notice Me Without Talking?

Male peacocks get female peacocks to notice them by showing their feathers.

Not all communication needs to take place verbally. You can get people -- both male and female -- to notice you without talking. If you talk all the time, you may end up being less noticed than if you keep quiet, because people who talk frequently can eventually get ignored. To get a girl to notice you without talking, you can follow a few nonverbal methods of communication to make her intrigued enough to initiate conversation with you.

Instructions

1. Make purposeful eye contact with her. Doing so creates an instant, nonverbal connection. Not everyone makes eye contact, so by catching her eye from across the room or from close up, you will make her notice you.

2. Dress nicely to draw her eye to you. This doesn't mean wearing a three-piece suit everywhere you go, but it does mean wearing jeans and T-shirts that fit well, ironing your shirts and generally looking tidy. If you look around, you may surprised at how many people look extremely untidy; by dressing nicely, you'll set yourself apart from many other people.

3. Open up your body language by keeping your arms open, your legs uncrossed and generally looking positive. This type of posture looks more welcoming from a distance and is more likely to be noticed than if you were sitting with your arms crossed, looking unhappy.

4. Smile often. Girls will notice your positive energy, even though you're not saying anything. Many people find themselves instantly drawn to a radiant smile, and a smile can be one of your best ways to get noticed.

References

• Dating Advice for Dudes: How to Get a Girl to Notice You