How to Address a Card for a Bridal Shower

There are just a few simple rules to addressing bridal shower invitations.

Bridal showers, like every other wedding event, have traditional rules of etiquette; it is important to note who can throw a bridal shower and who can be invited. Unless there is no other option, family shouldn't throw the shower. Family members are always invited to the shower and you should check with the bride for a guest list so you don't invite someone to the shower who isn't invited to the wedding. When sending the invitation, remember to give at least a month's notice for the shower. It is acceptable to include information about where the couple is registered.

Instructions

1. Create the shower guest list. You will need to have an invitation for each guest, even if some guests live in the same house. Make sure you include directions for the guests and an RSVP number.

2. Address the invitations by hand. This adds a personal touch and looks classier than a printed label. Ask a friend for help if your handwriting skills are lacking.

3. Use formal names on invitations. For example, Mrs. Elizabeth Bennett or Dr. Sarah Walker.

4. Include registry information by handwriting it on the invitation. Don't include the cards from the store, as this can appear tacky.

Tips & Warnings

• If you are hosting a couples bridal shower, it is acceptable to send a single invitation to one couple. You still want to be formal when addressing the invitation though.

References

• "The Ultimate Bridal Shower Idea Book: How to Have a Fun, Fabulous, and Memorable Party"; Sharon Naylor; 2003
• "Bridal Shower Games: Fun Party Games and Helpful Tips for the Hostess"; Sharron Wood and Maybelle Imasa-Stukuls; 2007
• "Complete Idiot's Guide to BRIDAL SHOWERS (The Complete Idiot's Guide)"; Barr; 1999