How to Translate Your Child's Texting Codes
Most text messaging codes are abbreviations of commonly used words and phrases. For example, a poopular text code is LOL, or the infamous, laugh out loud. Most of the text messaging codes that your children are using are likely benign. However, it can be frustrating that your children have created a language all of their own. It's not too hard to decipher those seemingly cryptic text messages, you just have to know where to look for answers.
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Do your internet research. Text messaging codes can range from symbols to abbreviations and even acronyms. Websites such as Netlingo can provide you with extensive lists that may help shed some light on what it is your children are saying in their text messages. Some signs merely mean smiley face or see you later, while others can refer to drug and sexual activity.
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Pay attention to popular media. Look at teenage magazines and watch TV shows that are geared towards teens and tweens. Media that is directed towards kids is aimed at relating to what kids are interested in. Cell phones are present in many TV shows and movies as are text messaging lingo. Though this isn't the quickest way to uncover your child's messages, these sources will provide you with some insight.
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Listen to how your child speaks with friends. Sometimes word abbreviations will come out in speech. Pay attention to how your child uses codes. Listen for delivery and tone of voice as this can help you to deduce what kind of conversation your child might be having. If you child uses a code in your presence, simply ask what the code means without accusing him. Sound curious, not worried or angry.
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Read your child's text messages. Though this is an invasion of privacy, it's sometimes necessary in order to keep your child safe. Sometimes you can deduce what your child is talking about by reading the messages that come before and after the cryptic messages. Uncover what hasn't been directly said, by interpreting what has been said.
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