How to Teach Youths Better Morals
Teaching kids at a young age about the difference between right and wrong is an important lesson in moral and ethical development. Having good morals is about having integrity, being honest and ethical and having a good conscience. The sooner youths understand the concept of morals, the sooner they can begin making better decisions. Start kids out early by educating them about morals in a way that makes sense to young minds.
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Lead by example and become a positive role model. You need to obey the same moralistic rules that you teach to your kids or students. If you teach kids that it is immoral to tell a lie, you must not get caught in one yourself or else you lose credibility in the eyes of your pupils. Children become confused about the significance of being moral if they witness those around them displaying the very behaviors they were just told not to do.
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Ask kids if they know about right and wrong. Make them give you examples of the difference. Help them construct a definition for morals if they do not seem to grasp the concept.
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Encourage self direction in young children. Self direction implies that kids make decisions based on whatever is in their best interest, according to a publication by Dr. Elisa Medhus on Kaboose.com. It teaches kids to disregard peer pressure and not make decisions based on popularity or trying to fit in and make friends. Rather, kids must learn about doing the right thing that gives them the best result possible.
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Teach kids how to look at potential consequences within particular situations. If the consequences are negative, then it is a good indication that the decision is not moral. Consequences for immoral behavior may include losing friends, getting grounded, getting into trouble with the law, getting kicked out of school and going to jail.
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Perform practice exercises with kids and have them choose what the moral action would be in a given situation. For instance, a scenario example is that the child wants something from the toy store, but his parent says he cannot get it. The boy has the choice to take the toy anyway and hide it from the parent -- which is stealing -- or obey the parent and be patient, with a plan to save up money and buy it himself. In this scenario, the moral answer is the latter.
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Promote responsibility. Teaching kids about being responsible helps them develop a sense of morality and right versus wrong. To do this, ask them for their input from time to time. Make them responsible for certain decisions that you do as a family or a class and guide them along the way.
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Point out when something is not a good example of morals. If you drive past a wall of graffiti outside, ask whether it seems moral to paint on another's property. Talk about morals through conversation and get the perspective of the child as often as you can.
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