How to Make Points in an Argument

Day to day arguments will benefit from organization and a constructed approach.

Constructing a logical, concise and winning argument is key to effective persuasive writing and debate. If you fail to present a cohesive and organized presentation, your message will ultimately suffer. Rather than letting the opposition capitalize on simple mistakes, let your argument succeed on its own merits. Approach an argument as if it were a moderated sporting or forensics event to lend credence to your points and the entirety of your message. In "A Rulebook for Arguments" Anthony Weston states that, " 'to give an argument' means to offer a set of reasons or evidence in support of a conclusion" (See Reference 1).

Instructions

1. Keep your emotions under control as the argument or confrontation starts. Run through your argument very quickly in your head and organize your thoughts before saying anything.

2. Let the other party calmly know you disagree with them. Emphasize that your disagreement is based on an issue of principal or perspective rather than anything directly personal. Avoiding ad hominem, or personal, attacks will better prepare an audience for your points and prevent the argument from devolving into a fight.

3. State the basis for your disagreement in the matter. Explain how you've come to you judgment or belief in a concise manner.

4. Allow the opposition a few minutes to respond. Respect their position by not interrupting for a reasonable time even if you see the obvious flaws in their reasoning.

5. Point out where you believe they've slipped up or made a rush to judgment. Explain how you differ in your opinion and why you believe your position is preferred.

6. Close up the argument by restating your position and summarizing supporting material. Emphasize once again that the matter is strictly based on principle and not something personal. Excuse yourself from continuing the argument and let the matter rest momentarily until an agreement can be reached.

Tips & Warnings

• Create an outline for more organized forms of debate and argument, but attempt something similar in a spontaneous forum.

• Allowing an argument to become decidedly personal or mean-spirited may ultimately to a less productive physical confrontation that may result in personal injury and even arrest.

References

• "A Rulebook for Arguments;" Anthony Weston; 2008