How to Decide to Accept a Divorce Proposal

Divorce is a difficult, emotional time, especially if the separation is acrimonious. Although many divorces are handled in court, making or accepting a divorce settlement proposal may be beneficial. By accepting a settlement proposal, you could save yourself time and money spent on lawyers and courtrooms. However, you should not accept a proposal if you feel like you are being completely compromised. Instead, decide if what you will get is fair and reasonable.

Instructions

1. Read over your spouse's proposal carefully. Speak with your attorney if parts of it are confusing or unclear.

2. Read your spouse's custody offer if you have children. Decide whether the custodial division is what you want and expect. Look at your spouse's offer for child support. Decide if it's enough money for you or if you are paying too much.

3. Examine how your spouse has divided up your property, including real estate, assets and belongings. Decide if you feel the property has been fairly divided.

4. Read the section on alimony, if you live in state where alimony is part of a divorce proceeding. Check your finances and decide if the offer is fair and reasonable.

5. Make a counter proposal if the terms of the proposal are unacceptable to you.

References

• Divorce-Papers: Divorce Settlements - Assets And Debts
• The Modern Woman's Divorce Guide: Using a Settlement Conference for Success in your Divorce
• Cornell Law School: Divorce