How to Tell If a Guy Has Commitment Problems
When developing a relationship, it is important to be able to let your guard down and have him let his guard down as well. While you may feel the relationship is leading somewhere special, it's possible that he is afraid of the commitment and plans to end things. If you think the guy you're dating has commitment issues, you should pay attention to his behavior to determine whether he shows signs of fear.
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Ask him about his past relationships to determine their duration and why they ended. Short lived relationships are the hallmark of someone afraid of commitment. The guy continues to get into new relationships, however, to avoid loneliness.
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Pay attention to how he talks about you and to you. If he is overly critical of you he may be finding excuses to end the relationship quickly or stay emotionally distant.
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Examine his working habits. Men who fear commitment often choose their careers over their partners, preferring to work long hours instead of spending time together.
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Decide if he is reliable. If he often backs out of plans or cancels on you, it's likely that he doesn't want to get too serious.
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Question him about his goals and plans for his life. He may show signs of commitment issues by moving from home to home or changing life goals often.
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