Things You'll Need:
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Step 1
Visit the patient as much as you can unless she or her doctor advise you not to.
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Step 2
Help her with meals. The nurses will set the patient's tray up and get her started. Don't hover or fuss, but give her a hand if she needs it.
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Step 3
Help her walk. It's comforting for a patient to have a loving arm to lean against when she's strolling up and down the hall, gaining strength in her legs.
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Step 4
Encourage her to walk, cough and breathe deeply, and avoid stress, but be relaxed about it.
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Step 5
Avoid having lots of people in to visit unless the patient asks for them. Remember she's still in the midst of a major recovery. Limit visitors to only the most immediate family members. Leave the children at home if possible.
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Step 6
Encourage the patient to follow the instructions of her doctors and nurses. Let the patient complain, but don't take her side and tell her it's OK to skip her post-op activities when she feels like it.
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Step 7
Ask the doctors and nurses questions when there's something you don't understand. Have faith in the medical staff.











Comments
Sun1021 said
on 12/4/2008 My husband is coming home tomorrow, he has had a quad bypass, they have quite a bit of pain relievers, etc. I'm afraid that I won't be able to help him, I'm disabled, and can't do much on my own, I have a son who stays with us for now, how do we move him, he's 6'6,I don't want to cause any further pain. We have a recliner that with suit him well, it's big. I will make him do his walks, this will help both of us. But the fear of hurting him makes me feel sick in my stomach. How do you cope?