How to Prevent Teen Dating Violence
For women between the ages of 15 and 44, violence in the relationship is the No. 1 cause of injury, according to the Washington State Office of the Attorney General. Teenagers experience this violence every day. Many teens mistake domestic abuse for love and believe that hitting is normal in a relationship. Teen dating violence is described as physical, emotional or sexual abuse. Young women in abusive relationships often have a difficult time leaving their abusers. However, there are a few things that you can do to help someone out of this situation.
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Identify the signs of abuse. Physical and sexual abuse are easier to recognize, however, emotional abuse is equally as dangerous. Identifying that someone is in an abusive relationship is an important step to saving a life. Looking for the physical signs of abuse is the first step, the Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence says. Unexplained bruises or broken bones are indicative of domestic violence. Also, notice any drastic changes in attitude or personality. Immediately address any changes in behavior or if you notice signs of isolation and depression.
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Communicate and develop a safety plan, the Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence urges. Set in place a plan of action in case she's in danger. Give her a list of numbers that she can call in an emergency. Include addresses of safe meeting places in the area. In addition, tell her neighbors about the violence and ask them to call the police if they hear any sounds of abuse. If an argument occurs, advise her to leave the house immediately. Also, instruct her to scream and call for help if she can't leave.
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Seek professional help. Young women are susceptible to emotional damage because of domestic violence. Victims of violence often start drinking, attempt suicide and engage in risky behavior, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Advise her to talk to her guidance counselor if she is having trouble in school. She should also talk to a therapist to help prevent abusive relationships in the future.
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Tips & Warnings
Teens in abusive relationships are often too afraid and ashamed to reach out. It's important for you to let her know that you are there if needed.
If you or someone that you love is in an abusive relationship, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling, toll-free, 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).
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