How to Conduct a Christian Gravesite Service
Many Christians choose to conduct a grave site service at a cemetery where the deceased will be buried or entombed. The family members planning the service experience a lot less stress when the deceased leaves specific instructions. However, sometimes this is not possible, especially in an unexpected passing. Following some simple guidelines will aid you in preparing for a memorable service that will honor your loved one.
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Contact funeral homes regarding what is allowed at a grave site service, costs involved and available dates and times. Pick a funeral business that will meet the requirements of your loved one's religion. It is especially important to check on rules for grave site service if you are performing a service for a veteran who is being buried in a national cemetery.
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Plan the logistics of the service with the cemetery. Provide chairs for immediate family members and elderly friends and relatives. Arrange for a canopy over the grave site if rain is expected. Plan on a brief service, keeping in mind that people will also be standing throughout the service. Position the minister and speakers at the front, facing the audience.
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Choose the minister or priest who will be performing the service and coordinate their availability with the date and time designated by the funeral home. Ask the pastor if there needs to be a specific order to the service, or if you can arrange the presentation yourself.
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Decide which music (if any) should be played, such as a CD with favorite songs, a musician strumming a guitar or a vocalist singing. Pick readings from the bible or cherished poems reflecting the deceased's life. Choose a family representative to give a brief eulogy. Provide opportunities in advance for friends and family to speak briefly.
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Close out the service with the minister offering up a prayer and a silent time of reflection. Make any announcements and dismiss participants. Plan ahead of time if any family members are staying to see the casket lowered in the ground.
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