How to Know Your in Love With a Guy

Understand what it means to be in love.

You can create a list of things that you want in a guy and come up with an image in your head of your ideal man. However, that won't change who you fall in love with in reality. Falling in love doesn't mean you found the guy who meets your criteria. Knowing you're in love with a guy happens when you feel a sensation that is indescribable and can only be expressed through a love song or intimate poem.

Instructions

1. Ask yourself if you are feeling the sensation of what many describe as "falling in love." Maybe a love song comes on and all you can think about is your future with this guy and what may lie ahead

2. Determine your pain level. If it physically hurts to be away from this person and all you want to do is be near him, you be may be in love.

3. Talk to him and find out if he feels the same way about you. In order to move forward in a relationship, it's essential that the feelings are mutual. To try and force something that isn't meant to be will only cause you pain in the end.

4. Close your eyes and imagine your future. If you can't foresee life without this guy and his feelings are mutual, you may be in love and may have potentially found your soulmate.

Tips & Warnings

• Sometimes a girl can be in love with a guy and it not be mutual. Don't let a guy lead you on and make you believe he is in love with you when he is not. If you are opening up your heart to a person, it's important to make sure you are both on the same page. Some signs that he might be playing you include, he is talking to many other girls, he doesn't want to spend much time together and he only speaks to you at his convenience.

References

• Love Sessions: What is Being in Love?