How to Get Your Toddler to Sit in His High Chair

Keep your toddler entertained in a highchair to help maintain his happiness.

Most parents of toddlers have experienced some sort of struggle during meal time, whether it's related to getting the child to eat or simply to stay still until finished. For parents of a toddler who dislikes sitting in a high chair, meal times can be a constant struggle. In order to improve everyone's moods during meals, it is important to make meal times a fun family event, along with taking the proper safety precautions to protect the child from falls and injuries.

Instructions

1. Fasten the high chair seat belt around your child's waist at all times while using the high chair. Even if you are nearby, a toddler could easily stand up and fall from the chair, leading to injuries.

2. Provide him with some of his favorite small books or toys to play with if he's going to be in the seat for a long time. Some ideas of toys to supply him with are crayons and paper, board books and toy cars.

3. Talk to your child about the reasons she's in the chair and why she must stay there. Even toddlers who aren't speaking understand more than you'd think, so explaining things provides them with a better understanding of the situation and what's expected. Tell her how long you expect her to sit in her high chair and be consistent.

4. Eat each meal with him so he can see that the entire family is to sit while eating. Set a good example while showing him that meal times are for sitting and eating.

5. Attach the high chair's tray above her lap to hold her in place better. If the tray is adjustable, make sure that it is fastened as tightly as comfortably possible for her. This will help to prevent her from standing even if she gets her seat belt off.

6. Allow him to get out of his high chair, with your help, after 20 to 30 minutes or if he gets exceptionally fussy or upset. Praise him when he sits nicely through meals until they are finished.

Tips & Warnings

• Avoid making mealtimes unpleasant, as it will just make the child wish to avoid spending time in a high chair.

References

• Consumer Reports: High Chair Guide