How to Know When a Woman Is in Love With You?
Love is a subject studied by philosophers, sociologists, psychologists and many others. Falling in love can be great fun and a welcome change from solitude. While chemical reactions in the human body may not be the desired or realistic thing to study when you are dating, things like dopamine, oxytocin and norepinephrine do yield outer results to watch for. These symptoms are common, so learn to pay attention and you can easily identify the signs.
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Open your mailbox or inbox. If it's filled with love notes that arrive often, you have a good head's up that she's in love. Note the words she uses, and any pictures, plus suggestions for health or happiness.
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Notice her attire. If she's always wearing clothes that are fresh, appealing and flattering to her figure or even sexy, she's hoping to catch your eye and keep it on her.
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When you're on a dinner date, notice her plate. It will likely only be pecked at. In the early stages of falling in love, loss of appetite is common.
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Pay attention to body language. Affectionate behavior is expressed more often and consistently. If she's always leaning in to catch your every word, that's a good sign.
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Notice her happiness quotient. If she smiles frequently, never complains, stops to pet every animal on the street, laughs easily, and hugs everyone, especially you, then love could be the cause.
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When you are alone, notice the tone of her voice and her face. Low, seductive voices can be heard in conversation or on the phone. Winking, eyelash fluttering, teasing expressions and slight nervousness may be obvious. Nominal perspiration, nervous hands and fidgeting are common.
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Listen carefully for endearing terms, the use of special nicknames, hints for romance. The obvious, "I love you" whispered in your ear is a fairly clear sign, too.
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Tips & Warnings
Love is not something to take lightly, so when it presents in your life, welcome it and make wise choices toward your desired future.
If your feelings for her don't match, and you simply aren't in love with her though it's clear she is with you, be honest and gentle when communicating. Avoid attacks or defensiveness and all drama. Honor your feelings while finding a way to honor her as a person, even though you don't feel you're meant to be together.
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