How to Finalize a Divorce Quickly

Most people want divorce to be as speedy as possible.

For most couples divorce is a difficult and exhausting ordeal. People usually want to get it done with as quickly and painlessly as possible, instead of drawing it out over months and in drastic cases sometimes even longer. Finalizing a divorce quickly will usually save you money and emotional wear and tear.

Things You'll Need

• List of mutual assets
• Divorce attorney or mediator (if desired)

Instructions

1. Hire a lawyer. In divorce cases, you can represent yourself, but the process is usually finalized quicker with the assistance of a lawyer who specializes in divorce. This is an effective option for a couple having a difficult time agreeing on things, from asset division to custodial agreements. Also consider a mediator in family law who will be able to guide both of you in resolving matters without the tension that you might have alone.

2. Be aware of your finances. To get a fast and painless divorce, it can help to be well-versed in your money issues, from your monthly income to how much you spend in a given period of time. This information is useful for being able to analyze and calculate your expenses for when you live apart.

3. Be civil. Being civil and polite with your spouse is one way to make divorce a lot less of a nightmare. You don't have to kiss and make up with your spouse or forget all of the problems you ever had, but you should make an effort to get along in a very basic way. Pointless arguing, bitterness and strife may prolong the situation.

4. Compile information about your shared assets. To rapidly complete a divorce it can help to prepare a list regarding any assets you as a couple might have shared, from vehicles and automobiles to credit cards and stocks. Putting together a detailed and concise list can help with figuring out an equitable division.

5. Figure out a solution for parenting. Determine who will have primary custody or if you will share custody of the children. Then put together a sensible and organized day-to-day solution regarding child rearing. The more decisions the two of you make together, the easier finalizing your divorce should be.

Tips & Warnings

• Do not lie. Be honest and open. The more you lie about in divorce the weaker your case will be and you will likely end up extending the entire process. This applies to anything from circumstances that lead to the divorce to your assets.

References

• "Jersey City Independent"; Quick Tips for a Friendlier Divorce; Jayne Freeman; Sept. 2010
• Do It Yourself Divorce Info: 7 Tips for Getting a Quick Divorce
• Cheap Divorce Help: Six Tips for Getting a Quick, Cheap Divorce