How to Word a Themed Wedding Invitation

Wedding invitations should reflect the tone of your wedding.

Wedding invitations are the first part of the wedding that your guests will see, so it's important to choose just the right phrasing. The wording should match the style of the wedding, as this helps guests decide what to wear and what to expect. Themed invitations should reflect the overall tone of the wedding and should be personal to the bride and groom.

Things You'll Need

• Wedding invitation template

Instructions

1. Decide upon the level of formality for the event. The invitations should suit the overall style of your wedding. Formal wedding invitations are usually written in the third person and refer to the hosts -- often the couple's parents -- by full names. Informal wedding invitations have a more relaxed tone and do not usually include titles, such as "Mr." and "Mrs." Themed weddings are more likely to be informal events, so the tone of the invitation should reflect this.

2. Decide on the type of message that you want to convey to your guests. This is an ideal opportunity to introduce the theme of your wedding, so keep this in mind when choosing what message you want on your wedding invitations. Themed invitations with a romantic message tend to focus on inviting the recipients to share a special moment with the bride and groom. Others provide the basic information about the event. Once you have decided on the tone and general message, it's simpler to work out the exact wording.

3. Choose an invitation template. This should include all of the information that your guests will need, for example, names, time, date, location and dress code. Some invitations also provide details about gift specifications or wedding lists. Make sure you also include an RSVP date and contact details.

4. Research your theme. Whatever your wedding theme, it is likely that there are a variety of phrases, poems and pronunciation that fit your theme. Make a note of any theme related phrases that you like.

5. Translate the themed wedding language to the template. Choose a mix of "buzz" words that are related to the theme of your wedding and work them into the wording.

6. Once you've written the invitation, set it aside. Then work through the invitation the following day to make any revisions with a clear head. Take your time to write and rewrite any parts until you are satisfied. Ask a close friend or relative for a second opinion if necessary.

References

• A Wedding Reception.com: Wording for Wedding Reception Invitations
• Southworth: Wedding Invitation Etiquette Guide