How to Give a Testimony at a Divorce Hearing
Going through a divorce can be a stressful time. A pending divorce can lead to emotional breakdown, upset children, family drama, and financial distress. It is important to take a deep breath, to fill out all divorce paperwork correctly and to take proper action at every step. One of the steps you will have to take to make your divorce official is to give testimony at your final divorce hearing called if you and your spouse can not agree on the terms of the divorce. If you never testified before, make sure to go into the hearing feeling comfortable and prepared.
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Find a lawyer that you are comfortable with. Going through the court process for a divorce can be difficult, and it is important to have someone on your side that you trust.
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Set up a special meeting with your attorney solely to go over the aspects of your testimony.
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Plan in advance for the day of your hearing. Make sure you have child-care arranged for your children and that you have accurate directions to the courthouse. If you're nervous, don't be afraid to ask a family member or friend for a ride and emotional support.
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Simply say "I do" when the bailiff swears you in.
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Answer questions slowly. This can stop you from jumbling up your words if you are nervous. It will also give your lawyer time to jump in with an objection if necessary.
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Make sure to speak loudly so that both lawyers and the judge can hear your responses.
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Stick to the facts. Remember that the truth is on your side.
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Tips & Warnings
Give the shortest answers possible that accurately answer the questions that you are asked. Rambling can cause you to spill out unnecessary information that does not help your side of the case.
Never lie under oath. No matter how badly your soon to be ex-spouse hurt you, a testimony is no time for revenge. Lying under oath is illegal.
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