How to Know Your Neighbors Better

Once you buy a house, get to know your neighbors.

Building relationships with your neighbors can lead to long-lasting friendships. Plus, knowing your neighbors can benefit you in times of need, whether you're out of eggs or need someone to pick up your newspaper when you're on vacation. Not all neighborhoods are inherently social, however, so you might have to work to transform your neighbors into acquaintances and possibly even friends.

Instructions

1. Get involved in neighborhood organizations. Many neighborhoods have homeowners' associations or community watch programs, and they are always looking for volunteers to help run these programs. Not only will you learn more about your neighborhood by your involvement in these organizations, you will also meet people who live in your neighborhood and learn about upcoming events.

2. Get outside. If you stay holed up in your house, it's unlikely you're going to meet your neighbors. When the weather is nice, spend time outside, whether you're cutting the grass, taking the dog for a walk around the block or playing with your children in the front yard. Simply by virtue of being outside, you will see other neighbors enjoying the fresh air, and you can strike up a conversation with someone you meet while you're out there.

3. Serve as the welcoming committee. Be proactive and welcome new neighbors to your area, even if you're relatively new yourself. People moving from one city or state to another often struggle to find their way around town, scope out the area's shopping and capture the city's culture. Deliver a map of the area, marked with your favorite grocery store, area malls, the best restaurants and local schools. Your neighbors will appreciate the gesture, and you'll get to know them when you drop off their welcome gift.

4. Organize a block party. If your neighborhood isn't social enough, take on the task of encouraging socialization. Pick a cul-de-sac or neighborhood field to host a block party. Hand deliver fliers with the event information and ask each family to bring a dish to share. Let the kids play and the parents interact. Have name tags on hand, and ask everyone to write their names as well as their address so that neighbors can connect.

Tips & Warnings

• Be friendly. Wave to neighbors when you see them, and make eye contact and say "Hello" when you encounter them. If you are approachable and friendly, your neighbors will be more likely to strike up a conversation.

References

• Move.com: How to Meet Your Neighbors
• Christian Science Monitor: After the Move: How to Meet the Neighbors