How to Find Out If Your Boyfriend Has Been Active on a Dating Site
Dating websites allow singles to come together with the possibility of friendship or something more. In many instances, users forget to delete an online profile once they meet a match. In other circumstances, unfaithful spouses create profiles to attract new partners or relationships. While asking your boyfriend about the dating site is one way, you also can investigate the website and determine the types of activities that violate your relationship or not.
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Check your boyfriend's online dating profile to determine the last time he logged in. If you know the exact dating website, then do a general search to see if you can bring his profile up and check for a "last login" date. Many websites allow you to utilize this feature without having to create a profile.
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Search for his name, email address, location, or physical features on suspected dating websites. Select his profile from the list of users and look over his profile. The website might display the date of his last activity or show communication with other members.
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Create a profile on the dating website and attempt to contact him if the date is not available. This lets you know whether your boyfriend is actively visiting the website, viewing profiles, and interacting with other members. You do not have to put in any information about yourself or a picture for most dating websites.
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Choose a friend he does not know or has had limited interaction with to make a profile and contact him. If he knows you are friends with her, he is less inclined to respond back to messages that come from her. Find a friend that is local to his area or has similar common interests to further persuade him to respond.
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Look for suspicious activity in browser's site history. If there are multiple dating and personal websites popping up in the browser's history from when he was last online, then ask him why he visits dating sites. Often if you begin typing a URL, your browser tries to guess and shows top sites you visited. This is one way to bring up the dating site to your boyfriend.
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Ask him directly whether he has been using the website and when he last used it. Honesty is the best policy when dealing with delicate relationship jarring issues such as this.
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Tips & Warnings
Hold back any overwhelming emotions when you approach him about this topic. If you are unable to prove he has been using the website, give him the opportunity to explain the purpose or use of his online dating profile.
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