How to Write a Thank You Letter to a Girlfriend

A handwritten letter is a thoughtful and romantic way to say thank-you.

Over the course of any relationship there will come times when simply saying thank you or sending flowers just doesn't seem to be enough. There will be occasions when you will want to write about your feelings in a longer hand-written letter to properly express your feelings to your girlfriend. In order to do this you will want to be thoughtful, sincere and creative. The art of letter writing is a great skill, and one that your girlfriend will definitely appreciate.

Things You'll Need

• Pen
• Stationery
• Scrap writing paper
• Envelope

Instructions

1. Plan out the letter. Write down, in point form, the things you want to put in the letter. Make sure to expand on why you are thanking her and why you have chosen to put it in a letter.

2. Write a draft of the letter on scrap paper. Take your time. Write clearly and sincerely. In addition to thanking your girlfriend, you may also want to mention other personable attributes that you enjoy and admire. Use a photo of your girlfriend to inspire your thoughts and words.

3. Take a break after you have completed the draft to give yourself time to reflect on what you wrote.

4. Re-read your draft. Make sure that your letter is written in an appropriately romantic and personal tone.

5. Write a final copy of the letter on good quality stationery using the draft for guidance. Make sure to sign the letter using appropriate terminology such as, "Love," or "With Warmest Regards" depending on the intensity level of your relationship.

6. Fold the letter and place it in a envelope with her name on the outside.

7. Leave the letter in a place where she will see it.

References

• The Art of Manliness; The Art of Letter Writing; Brett and Kate McKay; April 2009
• Letter Writing Guide: Writing Love Letters