How to Communicate With the Amish

The Amish have a rich history and heritage.

The Amish have a history that dates back as far as 16th-century Europe. Today most of their settlements are in the mid-Atlantic and midwest areas of the United States. The Amish don't actively evangelize, but welcome newcomers. If you are interested in living with the Amish and participating in their way of life, don't be afraid to ask them about it. They tend to be kind people who choose to live a simple life and work hard. They serve others in their community and have a close knit "family" atmosphere.

Instructions

1. 

   Make conversation at an Amish roadside stand.

   Actively ask make conversation at a roadside stand, an Amish bed and breakfast, or make an appointment to visit their community. You can even write a letter, since they do not have phones or email. Although the Amish speak "Pennsylvania Dutch" -- a German dialect -- they learn English at school and are equally fluent.

2. Be conscious of your appearance. The Amish do not sport moustaches because of the connection to the military. The men usually dress in dark, simple clothes, like a suit, while the women wear long sleeves, a bonnet and an apron. The Amish are very pious, so be sensitive about their religious belief.

3. Be conscious of cultural differences. For example, the Amish do not take pictures, nor do they want their pictures taken. Mostly they do not want to pose, since this is considered a sign of vanity. The Amish do not use "modern conveniences," like cell phones, computers, game systems, the Internet or even a phone. They do not own or drive cars unless they absolutely have to. They are also completely pacifist, so consider that in your conversation topics.

4. Be sensitive to young Amish who are not in their village. Some Amish groups allow their youth -ages 16 and up- to travel, wear jeans, go out with friends, drink alcoholic beverages and date, in order to make an informed decision about remaining with the Amish tradition. This is called "rumspringa" (running around). Between 80 to 90 percent of teenagers choose to return to their roots, but some do not. This is a vulnerable time for these youth, and it is important to value their culture and upbringing.

Tips & Warnings

• The Amish do not allow their members to marry non-Amish people (termed "Englishers"), so be careful in how you approach someone of the opposite sex.

References

• Countries and Their Cultures: Amish
• Religious Tolerance: The Amish Culture and History
• Religious Beliefs: Amish Religion

Resources

• Amish: Frequently Asked Questions