How to Get a Guy to Ask You Out If You Are to Shy to Ask Him Out
Being shy can stand in the way of pursuing romance. You may turn red at the sight of that special someone. There are things you wish you could say but the words are turned off like a faucet. Cross the room to start a conversation? It might as well be a walk across the desert. Fortune may favor the bold, but they shouldn't have all the fun. If you are too shy to ask out that dreamy guy, there are ways to send the message that you are a force to be reckoned with.
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Enlist your friends as intermediaries. Think about it this way: you're a special person, and your closest friends know that about you. So in matters of the heart, they are your surrogates. Dispatch them to test the waters. If they mention your name, and he perks up, that's a good sign. It may take a few hints, but at some point he'll get the idea and send a message back.
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Send an old-fashioned letter or note. The biggest advantage that shy people have over their louder, bolder rivals is the creativity that comes through patience. There's no limit to what you can accomplish through imagination, so take your time and put some thought into it. Use your note to make an original statement about yourself, observe something about him that he probably wishes other people would notice and suggest fun ways the two of you could be together.
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Do something nice for him. It's the simplest, oldest way of starting a relationship, but that's because it works. Offer to help him study for a test, edit some photos or work on his jump shot. Teach him something new that is fun and interesting and let him know that just because you're shy doesn't mean you're not a fabulous person.
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