How to Let a Girl Know You Like Her If You Don't Talk to Her

You can share your feelings with a girl without talking to her

Starting a new relationship typically begins with getting to know someone. There are situations when getting to know someone is challenging. While talking to the other person is ideal, due to a variety of circumstances, it may be difficult to actually speak to a girl. There are some ways to let a girl know you like her without talking to her. It requires only a little creativity and innovation.

Instructions

1. Sit or stand near her. Whether you are a student taking a class with her or a co-worker in a meeting, find a way to be in the same space with the girl you like. If she has a regular seat, get there early and sit in a seat beside hers or wait to sit until you see where she is sitting. If you only see her during breaks from school or work, find a way to stand in the same area within her line of sight.

2. Write her a message. Use your favorite social networking site, email or the tried and trusted handwritten note to express your feelings. Let the girl know you like her, but do not overdo it. Too much gushing can scare a girl away. Keep it simple and direct. You might ask her to have lunch or coffee with you sometime. If you are not ready for an actual date, just letting her know you like her is enough to open the door for a potential date in the future.

3. Send or give a gift. At this stage simplicity is again the key. If you notice she frequently does not have a pen or notebook paper, a nice pen or pretty notebook lets her know that you are attentive to her needs without seeming like a stalker. You may choose to leave it on her desk or somewhere you know she will see it. Leave a brief note and sign your name. An example: "I noticed you often don't have a pen and thought you would like this one."

4. Make eye contact and smile. This is perhaps the most important suggestion for letting a girl know you like her. It is a clear indication that you acknowledge her and like her without saying a word. Love-Sessions says giving eye contact and smiling shows confidence. Smiling and making eye contact also provides a way to communicate without speaking and may lead to her speaking to you first as your actions have opened the door for communication.

5. Use your manners. If she is walking through a door, hold it open for her. If she drops something, pick it up for her. If she is sitting down, pull out her chair for her. If you overhear her saying she wishes she had another cup of coffee, go get the pot and pour her a cup. Being a gentleman and paying attention to a girl's needs is a good way to get a girl's attention and let her know that you like and respect her.

References

• Love-Sessons: 10 Date and Flirt for Success Secrets