How to Plan an Intimate Evening With Your Partner

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Elicit the excitement and desire you and your partner felt when you first met by planning a private romantic evening just for the two of you.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Lingerie
  • Candleholders
  • Candles
  • Flowers
  • Tapered Candles
  • Champagne
  • Boxes Of Chocolates
  • Desserts
  • Red Or White Wine
  • Bubble Baths
  • Massage Oils
  • China
  • Fine Stemware
  • Romantic Music

Step1
Inquire when your partner will arrive home from work on one specific evening. Be very casual about your inquiry so you don't let on to your surprise. If you have children, try to plan the evening on a day when your partner will arrive home late so the children will be in bed.
Step2
Prepare your partner's favorite meal well ahead of the anticipated arrival time. Include as many courses as you can: appetizers, soup and salad, entree and dessert. Pick up a nice bottle of wine or sparkling fruit drink.
Step3
Keep the meal warm or cool by putting it in the stove on warm, or in the refrigerator in the dishes you intend to serve on. This will allow you to present the meal as soon as your partner arrives.
Step4
Set the table with your finest dishes and glasses, complete with placemats and cloth napkins.
Step5
Light candles and place them all over the house. Use different sizes and colors to create a romantic mood. Play some romantic music, too.
Step6
Wear something that you know your partner loves. Groom yourself as if you were going on an elegant date.
Step7
Dim the lights when your partner arrives, and quickly put the meal on the table.
Step8
Hide in a room where your partner will not see you. Make your entrance after you know your partner has seen the beautiful spread you have created.
Step9
Greet your partner with a passionate kiss and an invitation to join you for dinner.

Tips & Warnings

  • Prepare your partner's favorite drink and have it waiting on the table closest to the door.
  • If it is too late for a meal, have a romantic dessert ready - perhaps fresh cut fruit with toppings.
  • Use unscented candles on the dinner table so you don't mask the aroma of your meal.
  • Try to read your partner's feelings when you ask for an arrival time. He or she may not be in the mood for anything except sleep if it has been a long day.

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on 2/14/2008 Be confident, but don’t act too cocky.Make eye contact./ Keep the conversation about yourself to a minimum. Ask questions about your date. Be complimentary, but don’t overdo it.

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on 8/8/2006 Nothing can get your partner in the mood like some aggressive moves, especially if you have been in the relationship for a while. It will enhance the hormones and the mood of your partner. Show her that your still as attracted to her as when you first met her.

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on 11/22/2005 Plan a nice evening. Maybe a dinner and a movie. But instead of going home, take your partner to a hotel. Being in a different environment will heighten your senses. To make the experience even better, take time to go to the room beforehand and place candles, wine/champagne, flowers, etc. Your partner will love you even more for it.

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on 11/22/2005 Get a bag of rose petals and a single rose. Have a trail of rose petals starting at the entrance of your love nest. Lead your lover to the bed, where your petals will form a heart. In the heart you have a few options. It could be you, or a note telling your lover to meet you somewhere (restaurant, bar, shower, etc.), or tickets (movies, play, opera, etc.). Once you have your lover where you want them, present them with a single rose, and a passionate kiss. They will love you for it, and they will show you.

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on 6/11/2007 Start by leaving a note as he/she enters the house, leading them to the next place that you want them to go. Leave another note in that place, etc ... Lead them to you!! Have everything ready. It works.

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