How to Be Cool in the Fourth Grade

Being cool means having a helpful additude.

Coolness is not about looks or money, being cool is about having the self -confidence to be yourself. People who are happy with themselves naturally make others feel at ease and receptive to their ideas. You can boost your likability by making others around you feel comfortable, well-liked and part of your friendship circle. The fourth grade can be full of social challenges, but being cool and self-confident will help you to face this time period with the help of your friends.

Instructions

1. Look into the mirror and remind yourself you are cool everyday. Positive self-talk helps to exude a confident attitude throughout the day.

2. Make jokes with your friends. Humor and the ability the laugh at yourself are staples of long-lasting coolness. Humor helps to put others at ease.

3. Assist your friends when you see someone struggling. Your classmates will appreciate a helping hand and remember your kind behavior.

4. Participate in group activities. Help your classmates feel connected through games and playground activities by including others.

5. Greet others with a warm "hello". Being friendly makes people want to spend time with you.

6. Listen to your friends. Listening is a sign of respect that helps to make others feel important in your life.

Tips & Warnings

• Remember to put quiet time aside for yourself if you are an introvert. You don't have to change your personality to be well-liked.

• Avoid mean behavior such as taunting or teasing others. Coolness comes from appreciating the unique qualities in your friends and classmates.

References

• Children, Youth and Women's Health Service: Being Cool