How to Shake Hands Professionally

A handshake conveys professionalisim to others.

A handshake is a basic greeting form. Handshakes can be used to say hello, goodbye, thank you or congratulations. A perfect handshake can convey personality and confidence as well as professionalism. Shaking hands properly is very important; it can actually affect someone's professional opinion of you. A handshake can help to make or break a job deal. By knowing how to extend the perfect handshake, you may open up a world of opportunity.

Instructions

1. Stand to shake hands with whoever is approaching you. Keep at least 2 feet between you and the other person.

2. Make direct eye contact. It is important to let the other person know that you are paying attention. Looking someone in the eyes also helps build an instant rapport and create a bond. Smile to let the person know you are friendly and happy to meet him or her.

3. Reach out with the right hand. Meet your hand with the other person's right hand. Firmly grasp the other person's hand.

4. Point your arm in a slight angle downward, with your thumb pointing upward. Wrap your hand around that of the other person so the thumb joints meet. Grip the other person's hand firmly and barely squeeze.

5. Hold this position for 3 seconds. Pump your hand up and down 2 times when shaking.

Tips & Warnings

• Avoid overshaking or a bone-crushing grip. You want to convey sincerity and build rapport.

• Some countries do not approve of handshakes. Always research traditional meeting customs when visiting other countries.

References

• Career Builder.com: Six Tips to A Perfect Hand Shake
• The Sideroad: Business Body Language: Handshakes, Eye Contact, Posture, and Smiles