How to Talk to an Attractive Girl at School
Talking to a girl you find attractive can be daunting. Confidence is the key in approaching a girl you like, and by adding or changing a few steps in your normal routine, you will decrease your chance of being rejected. So, next time you want to talk to the cute girl in your English class, incorporate a few important steps to your approach.
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Instructions
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Make good eye contact with her. If you want to let a girl you find attractive know you are interested in her, it's important to look at her. If you can't look her in the eyes, it gives the impression that you are not confident in yourself, which can be a major turnoff.
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Smile at her and give her a compliment. Smiles are contagious, and telling a girl how pretty she is or how nice she looks makes a good impression. Females love to be complimented, and they will associate you with the positive compliment you gave them whenever they see you.
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Exude positive body language: Stand straight, pay attention to her while she's talking, speak slowly, try not to stutter and use hand motions while speaking (it gets people to pay attention to you).
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Seal the deal. Ask the girl for her phone number and if she'd like to hang out sometime. Approaching her is only half the battle; you must take the next step and follow through. She most likely is not going to ask you on the date, so take charge, and get what you want by asking for it.
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Tips & Warnings
Do a little research before the approach; ask around to find out if she's dating anyone. You may save yourself the embarrassment of her telling you she's already seeing someone if you do the research beforehand.
Dress to impress. Do not approach a girl if you do not have on a good outfit.
Don't be afraid to approach a girl, but don't approach every girl you see. If you start to become known as the guy who tries to date everyone, no one will want to talk to you.
References
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