How to Get a Man to Give Up the Fear of Getting Hurt in a Relationship
Fear of getting hurt is a problem a lot of people face when entering new relationships. This is especially true after a recent and painful breakup. Men are often hesitant to trust women after a painful experience in a previous relationship, but if careful steps are taken, it's possible to get a man to give up his fear of getting hurt in a relationship.
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Talk to him about his fears. In order to help the man in question overcome his fear of getting hurt, it's important to know why he has the fear in the first place. Discuss what past events have influenced his fears, and really listen to what he has to say.
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Prove to him that you are trustworthy. If he has any doubts about you, he'll be less likely to get over his fear of getting hurt in a relationship with you. Don't lie to him, don't see other people behind his back, and don't flirt with other people.
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Give him his space. If you try to rush him into a serious relationship, he will be more likely to shy away from commitment. Let him overcome his fear of getting hurt on his own time.
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Be supportive. Avoid starting arguments about his fear of getting hurt. Try to understand where he's coming from, and always offer positive encouragement.
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Tips & Warnings
Having fears at the beginning of a relationship is normal, but if he's still clinging to his fears several months, or even years, into the relationship, be aware that there might be something else wrong. Know that he may be deliberately avoiding serious commitments, and talk to him about any concerns you may have.
