How to Throw a Teen House Party
Teenagers thrive on social relationships with peers. Spending time together forms lasting bonds. Without proper boundaries, however, many teens choose to experiment with drugs, alcohol and sexual relationships. Concerned parents can help their teenagers form safe relationships with friends as hosts of a house party. If planned with the child, a teen house party can give adolescents a fun experience within proper boundaries. Proactively planning these events shows your teenager you care and desire involvement in their and their friends' lives.
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Talk with your teenager about being hosts for a party. If you child brings up the idea, be supportive and discuss plans with him. If you bring it up first, explain your motivation for having the party. Reasons may include wanting to get to know his friends, having a safe place for them to have fun together and a special event such as his birthday. Communicate your excitement of having his friends over to your house.
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Plan together what type of party it will be. Decide together if you want a specific theme for the party based on a holiday, birthday or school event, such as an after-prom party. Discuss ideas with her such as a dance, games tournament, movie or talent night. The party can be elaborate with decorations or simple with just a few friends.
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Choose the date for the party. Make sure to check for possible conflicts, such as other school events, community events or family plans, with the date you have chosen. Discuss with her also the time frame for the party.
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Make a menu of food and drinks for the party. Ask your teenager what kind of food and drink his friends would like to have for the party. Teenagers usually love pizza and snack foods, but be prepared to be creative if your party involves a specific theme. For example, a Hawaiian luau party might include exotic foods such as chocolate fondue.
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Set ground rules for the party. Be specific with your teenager what you expect from the party and what you will not allow. Make it clear that no alcohol or drugs will be allowed at the party if you even suspect that might be an issue. Discuss with her what rooms, such as bedrooms, are off-limits during the party. Talk with her about keeping music levels at a certain level to avoid complaints from neighbors. Determine when the party will end and how many and who of her friends may stay overnight.
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Invite guests to the party. Decide with your teenager how many to invite. On the invitation have your home phone number listed in case parents wish to call to check on the details of the party.
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Be home during the party. You might discuss with your teenager where in the house you will be in case a problem arises. Give him space during the party, but do not be afraid to greet friends briefly and let them know you are around if needed.
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Tips & Warnings
Give your teen the responsibility of cleaning up after the party. If she wants friends to stay over, have them help clean up as well.
