How to Get a Shy Guy Interested in You
Dealing with a shy guy can be frustrating and confusing. A shy guy is usually not overt about his desires and may be hard to read when it comes to determining whether or not he is interested in you. You can cultivate a shy guy's interest in you by approaching the situation with patience and being understanding of his shy nature. Though it is a little more difficult than dealing with an outgoing guy, landing a shy guy is not an impossible task.
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Be confident to become attractive. Wear clothes that make you feel attractive and put on your favorite fragrance. Do your makeup and fix your hair. If you feel attractive, you will be more confident in your interactions. Confidence is an attractive quality and will help build his interest in you.
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Take it slow. Strike up a conversation with the shy guy you are interested in, but do not put too much pressure on him. It will take a while for him to come out of his shell, so be patient while you build your relationship.
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Give clear signs of your interest. Make strong eye contact, keep conversation light and fun, and don't be afraid to flirt. Your shy friend may never have considered acting on his interest in you because he may consider you to be out of his league. Showing your interest allows him to feel comfortable with his.
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Make the first move. The person you are interested in may already feel the same way about you, but does not know how to approach the situation. Invite him out for coffee or a drink to give him a clear signal that you are interested.
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