How to Tell a Child about the Birds & Bees
For most parents, having the "talk" is a dreadful time in raising their children. When children start to wonder about changes in their bodies, it's usually time for them to have "the talk." A parent should do several things to explain properly the changes that are occurring, including being completely honest, communicating their own values and starting early. When children aren't told early on, they start to become curious and that can often lead to disaster.
Other People Are Reading
Instructions
-
-
1
Start talking to your children about "the birds and the bees" early. Children who feel like they can talk to their parents about anything including sex inquiries are less likely to engage in sexual activity than children who feel that they cannot talk to their parents about anything.
-
2
Initiate conversations about sex and about where babies come from. The more educated about a topic a child is, the better off they are when they become sexually active.
-
-
3
Talk about more than just the typical "birds and bees." Talk about dating, love, relationships and intimacy. Make sure the information about these topics is age- appropriate. Discussing these topics in detail will better prepare the child emotionally for relationships, dating and sex when the times come and may lead to better decision-making for them.
-
4
Tell your children about the values you have. Children may not automatically adapt to the same values that you have. However, later in life, while they're trying to figure themselves out, they may adapt to the same values and make wise decisions.
-
5
Discuss with your child information about the opposite sex. Children need to know why the opposite sex is different and other information about the opposite sex. The more information they receive, the less confused they will be once they reach a certain age. As the child grows, it's important to tell them new information that is appropriate to her age.
-
6
Allow your child to ask as many questions as necessary after you give him information. It's okay if you don't know how to answer certain questions, but tell your child that you will get more information on the subject. Be sure to explain what safe sex is, what can happen if you're not safe while having sex and what can happen if you get pregnant. Although information may be given to prevent teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, sometimes, things happen. Teens need to be more aware of sexually transmitted diseases and teen pregnancy.
-
1
