How to Attract Girls at a Club

You have to be confident to attract girls at a club.

When you go out to a club, girls won't flock to you unless you're a movie star. To attract girls, you have to make moves and be bold. No matter how attractive or wealthy you are, there are ways to attract girls at a club. A club or bar is a great place to meet girls because people go to have fun and meet new people. Stay positive and you will be attracting girls in no time.

Instructions

1. Dress nicely and wear clean clothes. Depending on the type of club or your personal taste, exactly what you wear can vary, but wear presentable clothes. Wear something that is comfortable and avoid wearing outlandish or distracting clothes that may cause bad first impressions.

2. Approach girls once you have been in the club for a while. Don't walk right in and talk to the first attractive girl you see, since she will probably notice. Never interrupt a girl who is in the middle of a conversation. She will think you're rude or ignore you.

3. Talk politely but in general. Don't ask very specific questions about a girl's life or personal information until you feel she's comfortable with you. Make small talk. Introduce yourself only if she is responsive and talks to you. If she doesn't turn toward you or keeps glancing away, tell her to have a nice night and move on.

4. Buy her or her group of friends a drink if they are drinking. Once their drinks arrive, don't automatically expect to continue talking. Ask permission to sit with her after you order her drink.

5. Listen closely to what she says so you can respond appropriately. A big part of effective communication is good listening. If you don't listen to her, she won't want to waste her time talking to you. This helps you evaluate how she's feeling and whether or not she's attracted to you. If she pays very little attention and exhibits bored gestures like tapping her fingers on the table or wagging her foot, she's not interested.

6. Act confident and like a gentleman. Don't get grabby or too physical unless she initiates contact. Be yourself and don't worry about the outcome of your talking. Even if she likes you, she may not be interested or available. The key is being open to conversation and presenting yourself as an interesting person.

Tips & Warnings

• Ask for her phone number or e-mail address only if you've talked for a while and she enjoyed your company.

• Don't approach or talk to girls sitting with a guy, as there's a good chance they're on a date.

References

• The Sage Speaks: How to Approach Girls
• Art of Seduction: How to Attract Girls
• Spectrum: How to Attract Girls