How to Attract Girls in Conversation

Coming across well in conversation will help you to attract women.

Women like a good conversation, if you can master the art of effectively communicating with a woman, you will find that she will show an interest in you. Women appreciate a man paying her attention in the right situation, so if whether you are on a night out in a bowling alley or in a bar, approaching a woman in the right manner is essential. Finding the right words and coming across with the right attitude will get you a long way in the dating game.

Instructions

Be Confident

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   Be confident in who you are.

   Start a conversation by asking her to tell you something about herself, whether it is her job, her hobbies, her interests or her family. The important point here is that you start the conversation.

2. Be confident in who you are and answer her questions honestly. Confidence does not have to be loud and brash, just confident that you are in control of the situation. A woman appreciates a man who knows who he is and what he wants.

3. Don't be vague or mumble your answers. If you like something, say so; if you don't like something, politely say that.

4. Be decisive. For example, if you are having a meal, choose what you want from the menu fairly quickly, and this will give you a chance to ask her about the sort of food that she likes. Showing that you are decisive will make you look confident and self-assured.

Really Listen and Ask Questions

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   Really listening and asking good questions will show that your interested in who she is.

   Ask questions often during a conversation. This is a good way to show that you are interested in who she is as a person.

2. Listen carefully to the replies. Women like it when you have listened and actually remember the things that they have told you.

3. Talk but do not ramble on. If she asks about your work, don't go into massive detail; just a brief outline is all she needs. Or if you have hobby that really obsesses you, that's fine, but don't spend the entire night boring her with it. If you feel that you have gone on too long, apologize and turn the conversation back to her.

Be Lighthearted

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   Make the date lighthearted and fun.

   Make the woman laugh. This doesn't mean be the joker all night or reel off cheesy gags. This just means tell her a funny story or do tell her a joke if it's a good one that you think she will appreciate.

2. Make the conversation lighthearted and fun. Don't get heavy or serious too early on, and make sure the conversation is fun. This should help you to relax and enjoy it.

3. Ask the woman what makes her laugh. Talk about these things and you will discover what sort of sense of humor she has and whether you both appreciate the same funny things in life.

Tips & Warnings

• Show good manners; always be polite.

• Show that you are listening by making eye contact.

• Don't make sexist or derogatory jokes or comments.

• Don't talk too much.

References

• Art of Seduction: What to Talk About With Girls
• Dating to Mating: How To Seduce Girls