How to Meet Your Perfect Match Today
The dating game is often riddled with less-than-perfect matches. With so many personality types, body shapes and income levels, it's no wonder that people often lower their standards and settle for a mediocre match. However, with a little prep work, confidence and courage, today could be the day you meet your perfect match.
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Instructions
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Write down all the qualities you want in a mate. Include preferences on appearances, personal finances, social status, maturity level and any other trait or personal quality that you find attractive. Determine which items you are willing to bend on and erase them. Only keep the tributes that you must have in a partner.
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Remind yourself that you are deserving of love and companionship. Repeat this several times so you truly believe it.
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Pick a place you enjoy going, such as the gym, a park, the library or local pub. Take a shower, dress in clothes that make you feel confident and attractive. Go to the location you chose.
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Make eye contact with the people you see. Smile and make yourself approachable. Ask someone you're attracted to for directions, reading recommendations, workout tips or a question that suits the situation and requires more than a "yes" or "no" answer. Turn it into a conversation so you get a general feeling for any connection or attraction.
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Visit with others until you find the one you are most comfortable with. Ask if she'd like some company, a drink, some dinner or anything else appropriate for the situation. Talk with her and spend some time getting to know her. Ask for her phone number. Set up a date for the following weekend.
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Tips & Warnings
Appear confident but not desperate.
Do not go to an isolated area or get in a car with someone you just meet. Safety first!
References
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