How to Attract Women With Personality
The advice to "be yourself" tends to feel impossibly difficult the moment you consciously want to make a woman like you. Attracting women with your personality is not hard, but it means leaving the pick-up lines at home. A woman likes a man who acts natural, and doesn't feed her lines or come on too strong. Break the ice with a simple "hello" and make it your goal to have a brief exchange instead of trying to get a phone number or date. You'll both be more at ease and may discover that you have a few things in common.
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Browse the Calendar section of your local paper, and attend events that suit your interests. If you like to read, go to a reading, if you're a music-lover, head to a show.
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Arrive at events or gatherings 15 minutes early. It's hard to show your personality or get to know another person when you can't hear what she's saying. Women who share your interests are likely to attend the same events. Arriving early will give you a chance to say hello and perhaps strike up a conversation that you can continue after the show.
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Go out with a friend as often as possible. Having one friend with you will help keep you from feeling anxious when you spot a woman you want to talk to. If she's with friends, your buddy will make it easier for you to approach a small group.
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Smile at people, and if someone approaches you, make eye contact and have a friendly conversation. Keep in mind that other people at the event may be there to make friends or meet people as well. Not every conversation you have will be with someone you're attracted to, but you may end up making a new friend.
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Crack a few jokes if you want to. Pick-up lines are a dime a dozen, but if you have something spontaneous or funny to say, don't hold back. Humor is an important part of your personality, and finding someone who shares or appreciates your sense of humor is worth the momentary awkwardness of telling a joke that doesn't quite land.
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Listen as she shares her topics of interest. You've broken the ice and initiated a conversation about a topic that interests you. Now it's time to show the curious, dynamic side of your personality. Listen to what she says and show an interest, or ask questions about her interests. Just because you meet at a book reading doesn't limit the conversation to books.
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