How to Recover From a Cheating Fiancee for Christians
According to Infidelity Facts.com, approximately 57 percent of men and 54 percent of women have admitted to infidelity, or cheating, during a relationship. This infidelity can occur in a Christian relationship as well. Once this occurs, it is important for a Christian man or woman to deal with the cheating fiancee and decide whether the relationship is worth saving, or whether it is time to simply move on.
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Take a hard look at your relationship. Pray about the struggle and ask God for help dealing with your infidelity issues.
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Confront your cheating fiancee. If he has not admitted to the infidelity, ask him to be honest with you about your relationship. If he has, take a few moments to breathe, calm down and then the two of you can pray about the issue and ask for guidance.
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Seek help from a spiritual guide. This can come in the form of a Christian peer group, minister or priest. Ask this person to give you support and advice about how to deal with this issue.
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Discuss your feelings with the cheating fiancee. Tell her exactly how the infidelity made you feel and the two of you can begin to put the pieces back together or decide if it is time to think about breaking up.
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Take time to make the decision about ending the relationship. Continue to pray on the subject, seek counsel and read the bible. Pay special attention to passages about forgiveness, including Numbers, chapter 14, verses 19 through 21 and John, chapter 20, verses 22 to 23.
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Forgive the fiancee. This forgiveness can take time but should be attempted whether or not you decide to end the relationship or move forward into marriage.
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