How to Go From a Dud to a Stud
Defining yourself as a dud is demoralizing, but necessary to turn your life around. You might be a dud if you are automatically placed into the friend zone by every woman that you meet. To go from dud to stud, you must practice self-love before you can command respect. A stud expects the best and realizes that life offers no time to waste.
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Instructions
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Self-Improvement
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Identify your weaknesses. Perhaps your time management and organizational skills need work. Your social life may also suffer due to a lack of funds. In order to become a stud, you must work hard to address and combat your weaknesses.
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Maintain the possessions that you already own. Begin by thoroughly cleaning up your home and car. Eliminate clutter by making aggressive donations to charity. Donations are endearing and also symbolize a fresh start. Be sure to get a fresh haircut to complete your new clean look.
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Purchase a gym membership. As a beginner, you should introduce yourself to the fittest guys in the gym and simply copy their routines. Work out for five days out of the week for ninety minutes each visit. Exercise different muscle groups each session to avoid injury and stay motivated. Working out increases your testosterone production, which is essential for the swagger of a real stud.
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Monetize your life's passion. For example, a dud would happily sit at home playing video games, while a stud puts together his own video game tournament for cash. You may even consider freelance writing to make money while researching your favorite subjects.
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Save your additional free cash flow or reinvest it back into self-improvement. Work to build six months worth of living expenses in cash reserves. Spend money on some chic clothes and furnishings to feel good about yourself.
Your Relationships
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Eliminate and minimize any toxic relationships. As a stud, you must refuse to accept ill treatment. Immediately cut off all contact with individuals that relish combat and using other people. Dump your girlfriend, if applicable.
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Approach every attractive woman that makes eye contact with you. Let the woman know that you find her attractive and want to continue the conversation at a later point. As a rookie stud, you should be approaching at least 15 women per week and coming away with two phone numbers.
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Call women to set up dates. The telephone should only be used to arrange and confirm dates. Studs do not have time for idle friend-zone chit chat.
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Go out with different women to compare chemistry. Cultivate relationships with women that happily treat you as if you are a rock star. From this pool, you may narrow your options down to a supportive girlfriend and possibly a loving wife.
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Tips & Warnings
Always remember your days as a dud to stay humble and motivated.
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